kenapa? JEALOUS??? (for couple)
kenapa kita jealous. For me, tak perlu jealous, but sometimes, I do jealous. and i really hate that feeling. urghh its the feeling which I think the most annoying feelings in the world. pergh ok ... have you ever think why are you jealous? why are you jealous when your bf is talking to the other girl. you know, JUST talking. but you're jealous like dying. you hate that ? yes, mee too!
but sometimes I am not worry at all. I just let him talk to them without any negative perceptions. I dont know maybe there's a time I feel that I am in a SAFE condition, I trust on him and I know that he loves me with all his heart. So, when your brain tells you these .. u'll feel SAFE. NO WORRIES. You still can smile...
then again, why there's another time when you cant resist it? i mean you feel jealous. yeah.. sometimes very jealous. why? lets read it from here;
Mistrust Jealousy can be a sign that you do not trust your mate. If you have been cheated on before or if you are in an unfaithful relationship, you may feel jealousy when your mate looks at, talks to, or comes into contact with other women. You may fear that your mate will want to have intimate relations with this person.
Unstable Relationship If your relationship has been on the rocks or if your mate is known to flirt and not give you the attention that you need from the relationship, you may be jealous of others that he talks to. You may feel that he is giving them more attention than he gives you. You are not confident that your relationship is in the stage that it should be in for it to last.
Insecurity Some people are not jealous due to the nature of their mate but due to the nature of themselves. People with low self esteems may feel jealous of others because they fear that they are not good enough for their mate. They are continuously comparing themselves to others. They feel that other women are more attractive. They do not understand why their mate has chosen them.
So the lessons are...
1. Trust your partner -dont ever lose their trust
2. believe that he loves you.
3. build confidence in yourself.
4. control your mind: think in positive way
5. settle the problems. - to make sure the relationship is STABLE
BUT! if he is really are.. he is talking to other girl because he like them... , i'm sorry I cant help you dear.
nak je rasanya time time jealous tu pegi kat pompuan tu sambil buat gaya di atas, and ask her
"hey, what do you want from my husband?"
grr ok, belum kawen.